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21
Mar
How to Control and Reduce The Toxic Stress of Homophobia – LOP070

How to Control and Reduce The Toxic Stress of Homophobia – LOP070

Last week I was listening to Jonathan Van Ness’ podcast, Getting Curious (whom many of you might know from the
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18
Mar
When the Fight for LGBTQ Equality Seems Lost – LOP069

When the Fight for LGBTQ Equality Seems Lost – LOP069

You need to keep trying, no matter what. ”How long should you try? Until."Jim Rohn Jim Rohn never
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14
Mar
Saying Yes to Everything Will Get You Nothing You Want – LOP068

Saying Yes to Everything Will Get You Nothing You Want – LOP068

Are you a “Yes-person”, someone who says yes to everything, because you think if you don’t, people might not
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11
Mar
Being At Ease With Yourself – LOP067

Being At Ease With Yourself – LOP067

“…from the standpoint of the ego, the universe is seen as the “other.” The ego concludes that this “other” is
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07
Mar
Life Is What You Make It: Don't Backdate It – LOP066

Life Is What You Make It: Don't Backdate It – LOP066

When Your Heroes Start Dying. Baby, life's what you make it Can't escape it Baby, yesterday&
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04
Mar
What Are the Qualities of Gay Leadership? LOP065

What Are the Qualities of Gay Leadership? LOP065

Evolving Insights Into the Evolutionary Leadership Abilities of Gay Men. Possibly the most important and vital quality in a leader
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02
Mar
Your Relationship with Your Mind (the Ego) and the Other

Your Relationship with Your Mind (the Ego) and the Other

Changing the Structure of Self-Criticism The relationship you have with your mind determines how you feel about yourself. Have you
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28
Feb
Is Instagram to Blame for Gay Thirst Traps or Those Who Follow? LOP064

Is Instagram to Blame for Gay Thirst Traps or Those Who Follow? LOP064

Reading my Twitter feed last week, I read a knee-jerk reaction to people with beautiful bodies posting pictures of themselves
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25
Feb
The Challenge to Lead as Out Gay Men – LOP063

The Challenge to Lead as Out Gay Men – LOP063

Recently I asked a question in an LGBTQ Professionals Group on Facebook. Here’s what I posted: I’m creating
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23
Feb
Are Things Getting Better or Worse in the World?

Are Things Getting Better or Worse in the World?

Why your intentions, words, and actions matter — in that order. “What’s going on in the world?”, is a refrain
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