Words That Hurt: What You Say Matters – LOP047
“Sticks and stones may break my bones, but names will never hurt me.”
The intention behind words matters.
How a
In Gratitude: Meeting My Partner’s Family for the First Time – LOP043
For many people, meeting your beloved's family for the first time can be nerve-racking. This is a rite
How Gay Men Imbue Culture With Beauty and Creativity – LOP042
As a gay man, when I tune into beauty I connect with the source that creates life. From that source
Rudolph The Red Nose Reindeer Is a Queer Hero’s Journey – LOP041
Viewing the 1964 cartoon through a queer lens.
As a little boy, I loved the classic Christmas cartoon, Rudolph the
How My Parents Influenced My Gay Male Identity – LOP040
Our earliest influences that form who we become as adults start with our parents. While I am certainly not saying
Forgiveness and Acceptance of Internalized Homophobia – LOP039
Gay men can lead others in a new model of forgiveness through their own healing of gay shame and understanding
From Sissy Boys to Straight-Acting Gay Men
Forgiveness and Self-Acceptance Start with Understanding Our Gay Shame.
Forgiveness allows you to live in the now, to have the
We Need Humane Rights, Not Human Rights – LOP037
Populism is on the rise in North America.
For the first time it seems like we’re beginning to see
Is Forgiveness of Homophobia a Gay Male Gift? LOP030
In this episode, I speak about the challenge for gay men to forgive homophobia in their lives – be it from
Ask Better Questions To Get What You Need – LOP010
This episode was inspired by a recent post on my publication, Th-Ink Queerly about one person’s coming out process,
