Personal Growth

23
May
Feeling Sorry for Yourself? How to Overcome that Problem – LOP087

Feeling Sorry for Yourself? How to Overcome that Problem – LOP087

One morning about four years ago I was feeling sorry for myself. I had been wallowing in self pity and
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11
Apr
The Many Paths of Living OUT Leadership – LOP076

The Many Paths of Living OUT Leadership – LOP076

We Are Living in Troubled Times. Many of us feel compelled to do something, to affect change, but we might
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30
Mar
"Are Gay Men REALLY Different?"

"Are Gay Men REALLY Different?"

What’s right with gay men. Recently, YouTube superstar, Davey Wavey released the video, "Are Gay Men REALLY Different?
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28
Mar
How Can You Use Your Difference to Make a Difference? LOP072

How Can You Use Your Difference to Make a Difference? LOP072

As a gay man, what does it mean to live OUT the best of who you are? For me it&
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21
Mar
How to Control and Reduce The Toxic Stress of Homophobia – LOP070

How to Control and Reduce The Toxic Stress of Homophobia – LOP070

Last week I was listening to Jonathan Van Ness’ podcast, Getting Curious (whom many of you might know from the
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14
Mar
Saying Yes to Everything Will Get You Nothing You Want – LOP068

Saying Yes to Everything Will Get You Nothing You Want – LOP068

Are you a “Yes-person”, someone who says yes to everything, because you think if you don’t, people might
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11
Mar
Being At Ease With Yourself – LOP067

Being At Ease With Yourself – LOP067

“…from the standpoint of the ego, the universe is seen as the “other.” The ego concludes that this “other” is
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07
Mar
Life Is What You Make It: Don't Backdate It – LOP066

Life Is What You Make It: Don't Backdate It – LOP066

When Your Heroes Start Dying. Baby, life's what you make it Can't escape it Baby, yesterday&
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02
Mar
Your Relationship with Your Mind (the Ego) and the Other

Your Relationship with Your Mind (the Ego) and the Other

Changing the Structure of Self-Criticism The relationship you have with your mind determines how you feel about yourself. Have
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28
Feb
Is Instagram to Blame for Gay Thirst Traps or Those Who Follow? LOP064

Is Instagram to Blame for Gay Thirst Traps or Those Who Follow? LOP064

Reading my Twitter feed last week, I read a knee-jerk reaction to people with beautiful bodies posting pictures of
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