I Was Taught Not To Dream Big — This Fed My Fear of Failure and Limited My Accomplishments
Ever since I was a little boy, I’ve dreamt small.
I was a sickly child with severe ADHD. I
As a Gay Man, What Do You Believe About Sex, Love, and Relationships?
How gay shame intersects with your ability to feel acceptance, connection, and care — in other words, love.
One of my
Forget Affirmations, What You Need Are 'Statements of Self-Truth'
Why your personal truth and current reality kick sand in the face of positive thinking and affirmations.
In a recent
Do Gay Men Need to Forgive Themselves for Gay Shame?
Forgiveness Allows You to Live in the Now — Think Queerly Podcast.
A few weeks ago I received a comment on
Why Gay Shame Is Your Superpower
Diversity is a gift of uniqueness and creativity
When did you realize that you had to forgive yourself first, before
The Prejudice of PrEP: You’re Fucked if You Don’t Bareback
Bareback Privilege and the Demise of Risk-Aversion
There’s a new kind of gay male sexual privilege, one that’s
From Sissy Boys to Straight-Acting Gay Men
Forgiveness and Self-Acceptance Start with Understanding Our Gay Shame.
Forgiveness allows you to live in the now, to have the
How Gay Shame Limits Self-Worth and Personal Growth – LOP008
Something I learned about myself some time ago, was how gay shame was holding me back and limiting my success.