Queer

Sep
14
What Constitutes a Queer Leadership?

What Constitutes a Queer Leadership?

Laying the stepping stones for a new way forward. For some time I’ve been pondering the question, “What is
5 min read
Feb
28
Is Instagram to Blame for Gay Thirst Traps or Those Who Follow? LOP064

Is Instagram to Blame for Gay Thirst Traps or Those Who Follow? LOP064

Reading my Twitter feed last week, I read a knee-jerk reaction to people with beautiful bodies posting pictures of themselves
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Feb
16
A Conscious Meditation on the Gap

A Conscious Meditation on the Gap

Entering the space between all things. There is nothing but space between worry and fear. There is nothing but space
3 min read
Dec
11
Rudolph The Red Nose Reindeer Is a Queer Hero’s Journey – LOP041

Rudolph The Red Nose Reindeer Is a Queer Hero’s Journey – LOP041

Viewing the 1964 cartoon through a queer lens. As a little boy, I loved the classic Christmas cartoon, Rudolph the
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May
17
The Internalized Homophobia Of “Straight-Acting” Gay Men

The Internalized Homophobia Of “Straight-Acting” Gay Men

IDAHOTB Starts With Looking At Ourselves. If you’re an out and proud gay man — and whether or not you
5 min read
Mar
06
The Freedom of Accepting Who You Are Right Now

The Freedom of Accepting Who You Are Right Now

“When you drop the struggle with shame and accept life as it is without judgment, you find great freedom on
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Mar
01
Shoving My Queer Agenda in Your Face — Take It!

Shoving My Queer Agenda in Your Face — Take It!

For as long as I can remember it’s always been a man and a woman. For as long as
3 min read
Feb
14
The 10 Commandments for Being a Respectable Gay Man

The 10 Commandments for Being a Respectable Gay Man

Behold! The 10 Commandments of heteronormativity for gay men who want to fit in, fall in line, and be respectable.
3 min read
Dec
12
Why I’m Not Good Enough: My Dirty Gay Secret

Why I’m Not Good Enough: My Dirty Gay Secret

There’s a lot of gay shame that runs as an undercurrent in my life. This morning I watched a
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