26
Mar
What Does “Living OUT the Best of Me” Feel Like?
As a gay man, what would it mean to live out the best of you?
For me it’s about
4 min read
Darren Stehle
You make a real difference in the world every time you stand up courageously and proudly for what you know is right, ethically supporting a common humanity of dignity and equity.
08
Mar
The Problem of Freedom of Choice vs Discrimination
Over the last few days I’ve been monitoring responses to one of my articles on Medium,
Not Having to
5 min read
06
Mar
The Freedom of Accepting Who You Are Right Now
“When you drop the struggle with shame and accept life as it is without judgment, you find great freedom on
1 min read
01
Mar
Shoving My Queer Agenda in Your Face — Take It!
For as long as I can remember it’s always been a man and a woman.
For as long as
3 min read
26
Feb
What Are We Striving For — As Individuals and as a Human Collective?
Some time ago I watched the third season of Netflix’s Chef’s Table. One of the featured chefs, Jeong
3 min read
22
Feb
To Be Happy and Fulfilled As Gay Men We Need To Break Out Of The Box
When Did You Come Out?
If you’re over 40 you might have come out at a time when you
3 min read
19
Feb
Kevin Spacey, #MeToo, And The Problem Of Gay Shame
“As those closest to me know, in my life I have had relationships with both men and women. I have
5 min read
19
Feb
Today I Saw My Body in the Mirror and It’s Ageing
Actually, I wanted to write that my body has betrayed me.
That sounds more dramatic and outside of my control.
3 min read
16
Feb
What I Learned About Loving My Body As A Gay Man
Everyone has a story about their body. Some of us want to look great for the beach, to feel powerful
6 min read
14
Feb
The 10 Commandments for Being a Respectable Gay Man
Behold!
The 10 Commandments of heteronormativity for gay men who want to fit in, fall in line, and be respectable.
3 min read