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Jul
03
![[Video] All Polarization and Binaries Have a Central Point of Origin](/content/images/size/w750/2024/07/Polarization-and-Pinaries-Have-a-Central-Point-1.jpg)
[Video] All Polarization and Binaries Have a Central Point of Origin
How do we reconcile polarities like right versus wrong and good versus bad?
With so many extreme challenges and divisive
1 min read
Jun
15
![From Fitness Training to Becoming a Coach: A Journey I Didn't See Coming](/content/images/size/w750/2024/06/Darren-Stehle-and-Dax-Moy.png)
From Fitness Training to Becoming a Coach: A Journey I Didn't See Coming
I was on the path to becoming a coach 12 years before I knew I was on the path.
3 min read
May
18
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Rethinking Success to Embrace What Makes Me Happy
How my old beliefs about success keep me in the closet — and what I've learned.
3 min read
May
11
![Do You Have An Effective Morning Routine (Or Are You Following Someone Else’s That’s Not Working For You)?](/content/images/size/w750/2024/05/Darren-Stehle---Effective-Morning-Routine.jpg)
Do You Have An Effective Morning Routine (Or Are You Following Someone Else’s That’s Not Working For You)?
Want to see my (latest) morning routine?
3 min read
May
05
How Do You Navigate Moral Challenges and Decisions in Your Life?
Reflections on the value of studying the Tao Te Ching to get better at questioning everything you think is true.
4 min read
Apr
21
![Eclipsing ideology: Exploring the Impermanence of Fixed Beliefs and the Nature of Human Expression](/content/images/size/w750/2024/04/0-sfyuWdUnCMgi7wQr.webp)
Eclipsing ideology: Exploring the Impermanence of Fixed Beliefs and the Nature of Human Expression
Considering the fluidity of gender identity on the path of recognition and understanding.
5 min read
Apr
14
![The Journey of 1,000 Miles Starts with Where You Are Standing](/content/images/size/w750/2024/04/0-mncy7v2zBFu24lq9.webp)
The Journey of 1,000 Miles Starts with Where You Are Standing
How “Queering The Way” came to be the path I was already on.
6 min read
Apr
06
![Flexibility and Yielding Are Essential Aspects of Life — Stiffness and Resistance Lead to Decay and Death](/content/images/size/w750/2024/03/0-S0NZGIz2go3itrL0.webp)
Flexibility and Yielding Are Essential Aspects of Life — Stiffness and Resistance Lead to Decay and Death
When we yield to what appears to be blocking our way, we will find a way through.
2 min read
Mar
30
Magnetic Metaphors: Understanding Gender and Identity Politics Through the Polarity of Magnetism
In the fight for diversity and inclusion, we are butting heads by forcing the same energy of anger, dominance, and superiority against our opponents.
2 min read
Mar
23
The Way of Leadership Is Never a Straight Path — Especially if You’re Queer
Over the last few weeks, I’ve written a several posts investigating the qualities and characteristics of ethical and human-heartedness
2 min read