self-mastery

05
Jun
Nearly a Decade in the Making - "Queering the Way" Is Available Now

Nearly a Decade in the Making - "Queering the Way" Is Available Now

For the queer and trans leaders who've been waiting for someone to name what they already know.
1 min read
16
May
Why My Book Is Not Perfect — And Why That Matters

Why My Book Is Not Perfect — And Why That Matters

On practice, imperfection, and what queer leadership actually looks like in the real world.
2 min read
10
Mar
Queering The Way: A Virtue Ethics for the Margins

Queering The Way: A Virtue Ethics for the Margins

It’s just a jump to the left… and then a step to return.
7 min read
16
Feb
Novelty Without Prejudice

Novelty Without Prejudice

A poem about open-minded attention in an age of distraction and grievance.
1 min read
01
Feb
What Do You Stand For, and How Would You Know?

What Do You Stand For, and How Would You Know?

If you don’t have a clearly defined purpose, how will you know if your choices are moving you in the right direction?
4 min read
20
Jan
Disillusioned with the World, or Finally Seeing It Clearly? What That Demands of Humane Leadership Now.

Disillusioned with the World, or Finally Seeing It Clearly? What That Demands of Humane Leadership Now.

When social myths collapse, you can go numb or get specific about what you stand for, and learn to lead without dehumanizing others.
11 min read
30
Dec
Why 2026 Doesn’t Need to Be “Your Year”

Why 2026 Doesn’t Need to Be “Your Year”

How to lead with queer integrity without hype, hustle, or being sold someone else’s certainty.
3 min read
18
Sep
How Blame Erodes Connection and Trust, While Responsibility Strengthens It.

How Blame Erodes Connection and Trust, While Responsibility Strengthens It.

Rethinking blame and personal responsibility in leadership and life—Part 2.
4 min read
29
Jul
What Happens When You Shout at the World and It Shouts Back?

What Happens When You Shout at the World and It Shouts Back?

The more you lead with anger, the more resistance you create. What’s the outcome you want?
3 min read
24
Jul
Not Knowing Is Everything

Not Knowing Is Everything

Simple and easy are the nemesis of critical thinking and personal responsibility.
2 min read